Repulsive forms of pleasure

 

My question is: is it permissible for the husband to put his finger in his wife’s anus and move it as if in intercourse? I am asking because my husband asked this question of the imam of the mosque and he said that it is permissible for him to do that. Hence I am asking the scholars in order to be sure. May Allaah reward you with good.

Praise be to Allaah.
 

 

It is permissible for a man to enjoy his wife in whatever way
he wants, so long as he avoids having intercourse at the time of her period
and anal intercourse, because of the report narrated by Muslim (302) from
Anas: that that when a woman among them menstruated, the Jews would not eat
with her or sit with her in their houses. So the companions of the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) asked the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) about that, and Allaah revealed
the words (interpretation of the meaning): 

“They ask you concerning menstruation. Say: that is an
Adha (a harmful thing for a husband to have a sexual intercourse with his
wife while she is having her menses), therefore, keep away from women during
menses”

[al-Baqarah 2:222] 

The Messenger of Allaah
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Do everything except
intercourse.” News of that reached the Jews and they said: “This man does
not want to leave any of our affairs without differing from it.” 

Al-Tirmidhi (135), Abu Dawood (3904) and Ibn Maajah (639)
narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever has intercourse with a menstruating woman
or with a woman in her back passage, or comes to a soothsayer, has
disbelieved in that which was revealed to Muhammad (peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him).” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh
al-Tirmidhi. 

Ahmad (9731) and Abu Dawood (2162) narrated that Abu Hurayrah
said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said: “Cursed be the one who has intercourse with his wife in her back
passage.” This hadeeth was classed as hasan by Shu’ayb al-Arna’oot in
Tahqeeq al-Musnad and by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood. 

With regard to putting
one’s finger in the anus, the least that can be said is that it is makrooh,
because it involves direct contact with impure matter (najaasah) and filth,
and because it may lead one to do that which is obviously haraam, namely
intercourse in the back passage.  The Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said: 

“Whoever is cautious in the dubious matters will save his
religious commitment and his honour, but whoever falls into dubious matters
will fall into haraam, like a shepherd who grazes his flocks around a
private pasture and is liable to enter it at any moment.”  Narrated by
al-Bukhaari, 52; Muslim, 1599. 

The above view that it is
makrooh is supported by the fact that the scholars explained the reason why
anal intercourse is forbidden is the presence of filth. Ibn Qudaamah said:
Because the Sunnah refers to the prohibition on anal intercourse, therefore
it is forbidden. And it is forbidden because of the impurity, and that
applies only to intercourse in the back passage. 

Al-Mughni, 7/226. 

This undoubtedly also applies to inserting the finger into
the anus. 

What Allaah has permitted concerning which there is no doubt
is sufficient. 

See also question no.
40520. 

And Allaah knows best.